How do we obtain our goals?
It is so easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing, and how quickly they seem to be achieving success.
But more times than not, their success doesn’t seem like a success to them. To them, they feel as though they are stagnant and that they aren’t moving forward with their lives like they were hoping to do. But to the outsider looking in, they look like they are really going places and really moving at the speed of light towards their goals.
But, through all of this, the important take away is to remember that their journey is not yours. What they are going through; either their successes or their pains, are not yours and can not apply to you or your life’s path.
How do I make this happen for me?
Put those blinders on, and focus on your own journey and where you are supposed to be. Some might not be able to find this inner peace and focus on themselves for many years, and that is okay too.
We are all going at our own paces, this is not a race- it is a journey that we have to go through to get where we want to be.
My biggest pet peeve is when people will ask for assistance with their businesses, but they don’t want to actually DO anything to move forward or grow. They want to succeed, but they don’t set goals or discover where they are meant to be.
With the new year here, you are going to feel pushed into making a resolution. Well, I stopped making resolutions years ago, because they don’t work.
But what does work is recognizing that you need to change and aspect of your life in order to blossom and grow. So, do that.
Step back, really evaluate your life and what you can do to better your life every day. Make that your goal, and go crush it. Don’t sit back and whine about “My new years resolutions never happen” when you aren’t DOING anything to MAKE them happen.
The universe is here to help us achieve our goals, but only we can do that. Nobody else is going to make your goals happen for you, and nobody else is going to care as much about your goals as you do.
Find that fire inside, dig deep into that passion and run with it. THAT is my challenge for you for 2019!